Defined by an intimate relationship with Jesus.
Paul the writer of this passage was praying for the church in Ephesus and he was asking God to help these people get this. I hope you get this. I hope you would pray like this for the people you know who need to get this. God is the one who changes peoples hearts not you. I hope you experience the fullness of God’s love and that you let him work in in you.
14 When I think of all this, I fall to my knees and pray to the Father,[e] 15 the Creator of everything in heaven and on earth.[f] 16 I pray that from his glorious, unlimited resources he will empower you with inner strength through his Spirit. 17 Then Christ will make his home in your hearts as you trust in him. Your roots will grow down into God’s love and keep you strong. 18 And may you have the power to understand, as all God’s people should, how wide, how long, how high, and how deep his love is. 19 May you experience the love of Christ, though it is too great to understand fully. Then you will be made complete with all the fullness of life and power that comes from God.
20 Now all glory to God, who is able, through his mighty power at work within us, to accomplish infinitely more than we might ask or think. 21 Glory to him in the church and in Christ Jesus through all generations forever and ever! Amen. -Ephesians 3:14-21